Developing social skills at a young age helps kids to create better relationships with their peers. Children who can get along well with other kids easily make friends, which in turn, improves both their mental and emotional states. It will also help them to develop into happier and fulfilled adults. As a parent, you can guide and equip your little one with the right social skills. There’s no better time to start than now. Read on and learn about the most essential social skills for kids to learn.

Ability to Share

Sharing a snack or a toy for starters, can get your kids on the road to making friends with their classmates or playmates. Encourage your children to feel good about themselves every time they share something with other kids. You may acknowledge their kindness by praising them every now and then, but also try not to overdo it as they might end up giving away everything that they have only to be acknowledged. 


Cooperation is one of the social skills that kids need to master. They can use this social skill no matter how old they get, and they will pass it on to their future children. Most working environments thrive on employees who are flexible enough to cooperate on certain tasks and work together as a team. For kids, the ability to cooperate opens up opportunities for them to learn more about themselves. As a parent, you can start by creating simple tasks for the family that require for everyone to work together. And while you’re at it, emphasize the importance of cooperation to your kids.

Good Listening Skills

One of the most important social skills for kids to learn is the value of being a good listener. This means really getting immersed in what somebody else has got to say. Listening skills are a critical factor of healthy communication. Also, much of the learning in schools depend on the child’s ability to listen carefully and attentively to what the teacher says. When they are able to absorb educational materials, can take down notes, and think about the things that their professors discuss, they then have the opportunity to advance in the academic field. As a responsible parent, be sure to encourage them to listen well as it is even more difficult to master this skill once they are already immersed in the digital world, where people often have difficulties focusing on things other than their gadgets. 

Ability to Follow Directions

Children who have a hard time following simple directions are most likely to have a hard time interacting with others. It could lead to a variety of consequences such as having to redo homework assignments or projects, or getting in trouble for misbehavior. When you get your children to complete simple tasks, it could pass as a way of getting them used to following directions. And while you’re at it, avoid phrasing your requests as a question that may give them the option to say ‘no’ and not follow directions instead. Don’t forget to use the magic words such as ‘thank you’ and ‘please’ so that they won’t think that you’re only asking things of them for the sake of it. 

Respecting Personal Space

Teaching your child the importance of respecting personal space can allow them to succeed in their  interactions with peers and can even help them to gain friends along the way. As parents, you may want to do a trial at home so that when they are socializing in public, they are already well-equipped with the proper behavior. Even simple household rules can encourage them to respect personal space. These may include sign boards such as “Please knock on closed doors”. Establishing consequences can also help your children to develop this skill. Just make sure to provide adequate coaching to help them learn more about personal space issues. 

Using Manners

Kids that are well-mannered compel other people to treat them with the same amount of courtesy and respect. When parents encourage their children to use good manners, it helps them to develop a good attitude towards others. Though it may feel like a battle when teaching them these good techniques, don’t give up on them because it is a part of the learning process. After all, when they are already equipped with the right manners, you will feel more proud and it will also improve their performance in school. Being a good role model is also a good way to remind them of how they should behave. 

If your child seems to be having a hard time with their social skills, it is best to talk to a pediatrician about this. Underlying causes and factors can then be ruled out and your pediatrician can help your child to get back on track with their development.  

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